The last two weeks saw me dedicating my time to serving the nation. Those two weeks being away from my job, be with friends who served with me during the two years of national service and doing light duty had allowed me to clear my head and helped raise my mood. Of course I won’t say it was a perfect streak. There were days when I had low mood, but with my friends around, I still felt better as compared to what I have gone through for the past four months.
That’s where the title of this entry came from. My head felt lighter and clearer. I’m less withdrawn too. In hindsight, this whole episode can be seen as part of my growing pains. Yes, there are antidepressant and therapy sessions involved but at least I’m proud that I didn’t take the easy and irresponsible way out. I saw that I had a problem and needed professional help. So I went to get it.
And I’m not going to compare myself with others. Everyone has got their own strengths and weakness. I’m not a genius, the fastest thinker around or the best performing employee of the year and I’m not going to proclaim to be any of those. I’m just going to focus on what I do best, be humble, develop more skills and bring them to the table to contribute in whatever way I can. Comparing is just a waste of time and being sensitive to the result of comparison is one of the few contributing factors that let me down this dark path. Right now, all I ask is people giving me the space and opportunity to learn and grow at my own pace.
Another good thing that came out of those two weeks was that I started a new writing project, which to me is a major win considering how worthless and useless I felt just a few weeks ago. Every setback was really painful for me then. And this time, instead of jumping straight into writing, I went the route of outlining and planning out my approach. Some lessons had to be learnt from jumping straight into a project without some sort of a plan and then failing not just once but several times over the years.
At first, I did it with pen and paper. Then I typed out the outlines and plan onto Apple Note. I’m still in the process of digitising the rest of the content. And when I do have some additional ideas, I will pen it down on paper first. Overall, this project is kind of like a phoenix rising from ashes because it is based on the previous project that I scrapped two months ago because I felt the story was heading in the wrong direction. The theme remained the same while changes were made to the characters and settings.
I’m also trying produce more useful, technical contents based on my professional experience. This, I believe, is a good way for me to communicate what I’ve learnt and in turn help others. Previously, I mentioned that I volunteered some of my time to write technical articles for a company. The process was enjoyable and I’d like to continue that for other companies too. I’m on a look out for such opportunity and will get in touch if I find that I can contribute in a meaningful way.
Lastly, I was officially requested to help out in another project so that the official deployment/rollout end of November can be as smooth as possible. There were enhancement and modification to be made for a specific module before the rollout. And I am the best person to do it because I was the one who designed, developed and supported that module since that project’s inception. Now, it’s all about clearing that last mile and seeing it through.